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Everyone onÂ Islington Faces BlogÂ has a story. Â At 92 Gillespie Road thereâ€™s Arsenal Food & Wine, open from 6am-11pm, and next door the Four Angels cafĂ©. Shop owner and Arsenal fan Cemal Kilinc talks about 10 years running an Islington corner shop.Â InterviewÂ byÂ Nicola Baird
â€śWe had a family tragedy in 2011 and lost my brotherâ€™s wife and three kids in a crash (all lived in Haringey). They were five, eight and 13. It was reported Â in the English newspapers*. It was the school holidays so they went to Turkey, they wanted to come back early â€“ it was the day before they were coming home. We lost all of them, if only there was oneâ€¦â€ť says Cemal wiping tears away.
Itâ€™s an agonizing way to start an interview but for Cemal and his brother Turabri â€“ who wasnâ€™t in the car â€“ there is no way they can forget the horror of that summer two years ago. So, they made a shrine next door to the shop â€“ the Four Angels CafĂ©.
Four Angels CafĂ© is a lovely local amenity â€“ it serves good tea, coffee and macaroons. Iâ€™ve used it for interviews for islingtonfacesblog before, see Stanley Smart here.
But if you go to the back of the cafĂ©, by the leather sofas, you can see the four angels – black and white pictures of Cemalâ€™s youngest niece in a pretty dress; all the kids happily posing; plus Turabir and his wife looking chic. On a shelf to the left of the family pictures thereâ€™s also a heartbreaking memento, four pairs of empty party shoes.
â€śThe cafe used to be a betting office, William Hill and next door, my shop used to be a launderette,â€ť says Cemal after a break. Heâ€™s extra busy as his brother has gone to Turkey. â€śBut then they opened a Tesco on Drayton Park and make it look like a corner shop â€“ they shouldnâ€™t be allowed, it means local shops suffer.â€ť
â€śMine is a tiny corner shop,â€ť he says, â€śbut our busy time is 4-7pm when people walk along from the train station.â€ť And of course on match days â€“ although a big fan of the Gunners, he â€ścan only watch on the TV. But all the staff like the match days!â€ť
Birth, bees and books
Cemal finished high school in Turkey in 1982. I guess that means he was born in 1964, but he isnâ€™t so sure that heâ€™s 49 years old. â€śI was born in the village so my dad and mum only know roughly my age. We could all be five years younger or older,â€ť he says laughing. â€śI wish Iâ€™d been born in this country (the UK, just like his 19-year-old daughter Melisa was who is in her 2nd year at university, studying psychology), as my English is not perfect though I can read and write.â€ť
Heâ€™s being modest though; his English is 100 per cent fine.
â€śIn my dream I wanted to be a doctor in my country. But to start university you have to have very good points. I only had enough to be a teacher, and I didnâ€™tâ€™ want that. So I canâ€™t be a doctor,â€ť he says â€śIâ€™m disappointed,â€ť but heâ€™s laughing again now.
Itâ€™s a curious dream as when he was three or four years old, Cemal refused to go to hospital for treatment. â€śMy dad had 10-15 bee hives, for honey, and when the bees swarmed I tried to get home to safety, but fell down on a sharp stone so Iâ€™ve got a scar [it is actually quite a Harry Potter type of scar on his forehead]. My mum and dad tried to take me to the hospital but I cried because I was scared of injectionsâ€¦ so they didnâ€™t take me.â€ť
In the end the political situation in Turkey saw Cemal and his family coming to the UK in the 1980s. â€śI canâ€™t do anything in Turkey and the government was punishing people. At the time Margaret Thatcher was Prime Minister, so thereâ€™s no visa. But then I came with my family â€“ my mum and dad and my brother the next year â€“ as I had friends here, and weâ€™ve stayed until now.â€ť
Moving countries is a brave change, but recently the Kilnic family has had to face up to real challenges, not just the terrible car crash in 2011.
â€śMy father, who was born in 1934* was walking on the pavement in Haringey in 2008 and a push bike hit him. He fell and hit his head. He spent one year in hospital but is now disabled.â€ť This puts a big strain on the family â€“ and even more so since his mother fell injuring her back. She is now partially disabled and still in pain, even after an MRI led to her having a vital operation in Turkey where his sister is a nurse.
â€śItâ€™s been a very big headache,â€ť Cemal says. And running a business can be too. Heâ€™s adamant that he only wishes to keep to the law. â€śI donâ€™t want to sell alcohol to anyone under age 18. I want to protect my daughter, and to protect all our kids,â€ť he tells me. But a recent council sting operation has caused him much concern. â€śEverything comes on me,â€ť he says with a sigh. â€śBut weâ€™re humans, not the God. We can make mistakes,â€ť he adds, clearly worrying about a possible upcoming fine or even court case.
Arsenal Food & Wine has plenty of loyal locals. One, Kelly, suggested I interviewed him. Others share gossip with him when TV people, who live locally, pop in. â€śI donâ€™t know their names, but I see my customers looking at them or taking photos,â€ť he says, happier now. â€śAnd some of my customers print out pictures to show me.â€ť
Walking away from this interview I think about how difficult it must be to run a corner shop in Islington. The hours are so long; you need to be great at planning so your stock is right and doesnâ€™t run out. You need to be fantastic at maths so neither you nor your customer are short-changed. And you need to be ever polite, and ever vigilant for shop-lifting or spotting potential under-age drinkers or smokers. Itâ€™s not all about staring at the TV and listening for the cash till kerching, thatâ€™s for sure. Just some of the reasons we all need to be friendly to the stars who run our local shops.
- Arsenal Food & Wine, 92 Gillespie Road, N5.
- Four Angels CafĂ©, 94 Gillespie Road, N5
English newspapers â€“ a report from the Daily Mail (25/08/11) is here
Born in 1934 â€“ possibly, see why above.
Bereavement – the national charity Road PeaceÂ http://www.roadpeace.org/ helps supportÂ families after traffic deaths. Locally there is CARIS Islington Bereavement Service, www.carisislington.org, on 020 7281 5200, or Email email@example.com which “will visit anyone in Islington who has been bereaved, regardless of disability, gender, race, religion, or sexuality, or whether the bereavement was recent or a long time ago.” The service is free and confidential.
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